Friday, October 24, 2008

Well I chose to take the reins in this situation that I'm in. We talked to our adoption lawyer and she said that all the stuff that was going on was harrassment. I thought to myself actually it felt like a living hell, and so I feel better now that someone who is in the legal profession thought this stuff was not right either. So we changed our phone number to unlisted, and our lawyer said she would mail a letter to the "biological donor" if anything else was done. I just hated that it came to this point. You feel like a bad guy for complaining about things, but you also want your life to go on. Without having to look over your shoulder all the time. Thinking you're going to run into them. well that's about it.

1 comment:

Leslie Laine said...

Lanie - I know it's hard to stand up for yourself when you wish it was something that you didn't have to do, but I think it's a demonstration of what a great mom you are. You are truly focused on what is best for your child and family, and that's the most important thing. Period.

I hope that it doesn't come to the letter, but if it does, think of it as protecting your family.

You're in my thoughts and prayers.